What kind of love is this or what kind of love do we want?
Egotistical love cares about ones own needs. It is a mind-love, analyzing if this love is good or bad. It is a love filled with insecurities. Egotistical love looks through a magnifying glass and finds faults.
Spiritual love transforms, it is loving from the heart. It’s love that records no wrongs. Spiritual love is forgiving, kind, patient, compassionate and sees only the best. It is a love that looks for commonalities not differences.
So what kind of love do you want? Or, a better question to ask is what kind of love do I want to give?