No person can make us feel good or not so good unless we believe them. No place or thing can make us think this way or that way unless we relive the story attached to them.
Our brain is set up to attract what we resist. Ever wonder why that person, this place or thing we are resisting is still around? What we resist persists. A solution, let go of old beliefs and create new ones. We cannot resist what we no longer believe to be true.
It has been said, when you love someone or something, let go. If they remain they are yours, if they go, they were never meant to be yours.